The #1 way to succeed in real estate sales

This # 1 goal must be achieved to succeed in real estate sales.

What is your guess?

When a client calls you or you call a client, what is your #1 goal with that call? The answer may seem obvious to many and others probably have so many ideas in their head for what # 1 could be.

The #1 way to succeed in real estate sales

It’s a very simple answer. The #1 goal of the real estate agent must be to understand what your client wants. To succeed in real estate agency an agent must understand what their client wants. If you don’t take the time to understand what your client wants, you have mostly luck on your side (good and bad). If you don’t want to leave things to chance, you must ask a lot of questions first and foremost. One way to understand what your client wants is to ask the simple question; “Mr and Mrs Client, what would you like to change in your life as it pertains to (whatever your service or product is here?)” If you are a real estate professional, asking the client gentle, caring questions about what is their real estate goals and dreams. When reflecting on the answers, you want to ensure the client is considering the good and the bad of the opportunity for which they are inquiring or you are introducing. Ask follow up questions to build trust; “Why would this home be a good fit for your family”? What resolve will occur in your life by owing this home vs the living situation you’re currently in? Break the answers down. Is the client response quantifiable? Is it an emotional solution they’re seeking? Is this home the home that will facilitate what the client wants? If the answer is no, probably not, or the client is unsure about their decision, more time needs to spent on the investigation of the clients wants.

I often try to talk a client out of a purchase (play devils advocate) simply to confirm they strongly believe this home/property is the answer for them.

The #1 way to succeed in real estate sales is determining what your client wants.

Uncle Real Estate

If you take the time to determine what your client wants, and why they want it, you will be successful in your sales career.


WRITER:Uncle Real Estate is a real estate broker in California. He has been a real estate investor in California since 1992.

Get to know your real estate clients

Do you ever wonder what your real estate clients want you to do as their Agent?

Studies have shown, real estate clients want you to KNOW and UNDERSTAND them.

It’s important for any agent to take a genuine interest in a client’s real estate goals and objectives. It’s equally important to understand the “style” of business that will work best for them, to help them with making tough decisions. As a top performing real estate agent you want to provide your client with the support and guidance they need. You must understand them as a real person. To understand any person, it helps to understand a bit of psychology and human behavior. During the hustle of a hot selling season, agents can forget, the real estate business is a “People Business” first. Real estate itself has little relevance if it’s not important to the client. The transaction documentation has little relevance if it does not suit the buyer or seller.

How do we begin a new relationship? We take the time to understand the people we want to know and support. We can’t be an effective agent if we don’t understand the different types of people we work with.

Let’s summarize the four Basic personality types we will be working with.

1. Ego Expressive

Wants to “look” good and reflects emotions openly.

2. Driving Domineering

Needs to be in control, be right, and accomplish things.

3. Complacent-Amiable

Feels the need to be comfortable and to get along easily.

4. Stable-Analytic

Doesn’t like change, slow to make decisions, respects laws and limitations, needs an abundance of information, data points and detail to make a decision.

Ego Expressive

If a client is Ego Expressive, you will generally want to be focused on real estate that is pride of ownership or potentially upgraded to pride of ownership… and in the best locations. This buyer is prideful and wants the real estate to be a prideful asset. Curb appeal is important. Once documentation begins, this client will want crystal clear contracts and any mistake such as a typos or incomplete documents will disappoint the client.

An agent’s promptness and outward appearance is important to an Ego Expressive. You can generally expect open communication with an Ego Expressive and a good team member throughout the transaction process.

Driving-Domineering

The Driving Domineering (DD) client will not focus as much on pride of ownership. Things will need to be done the way they want and it’s best for them to identify the more subtle characteristics of the real estate without the agent pointing out every detail.

Be ready for the toughest questions. Don’t expect empathy if things become challenging. A DD is used to finding the “good” in something without being guided too much. An agent is largely in a support role with this client. Take the time to protect this client from mistakes and making sure they are looking at the project from all angles.

In real estate, we use a term, “control” to discuss the level of influence an agent has with a client. When it comes to a DD client, an agent can expect to have little control. Sometimes this type of client will want to move too quickly since they want to get things done and accomplished. “Time is a wasting” is a motto you will hear from DD. However, it’s critical to be the professional. Control the pace of the transaction the best you can so that your client stays in the best position during the negotiation.

Complacent Amiable

“Wants to be comfortable and get along”. Complacent Amiable is genuinely concerned for the agent. This type of client will want to know your commission is enough for your effort. You can expect they will also be concerned about the other side of the transaction (seller or buyer). They will want to know the buyer or seller is getting a “fair” deal.

The more complacent amiable clients you have, generally the easier your real estate transactions will be.

Stable Analytic

The Stable Analytic wants facts, and data points to establish their position. You will do the most research for this type of client. They do not work from their gut. They will analyze each feature and do their best to connect features to value.
Wear your eye glasses more often with this client.

Every client is different. It’s important to take the time to understand what type of client you are working with and the best way to serve their needs. Always be concerned about the facts, and the accuracy of all information provided. As always, look out for the client’s needs. When asked to produce information, challenge yourself to compile the data and provide it legibly. You will earn the respect of all types of clients and keep them for life.


WRITER:Uncle Real Estate is a real estate broker in California. He has been a real estate investor in California since 1992.

Real Estate Agents wear many “hats”

So you want to be a real estate agent.

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to earn “commission only” in your job?  Do you desire to be in charge of your daily schedule and also how much income you earn?  The Real Estate profession might be just the right profession for you. To get started in real estate sales, and as part of a plan for success, you will want to understand what the role of the real estate agent is.  Let’s see if you’re surprised once we complete the review of the many hats a real estate agent wears.

  1. A licensed Fiduciary
  2. An Orchestrator
  3. A Motivator
  4. A Problem Solver
  5. A Detective
  6. A negotiator

A Licensed Fiduciary

  1. Protect the interests of the Buyer and the Seller
  2. Trustee of Funds
  3. Exercise due diligence
  4. Sales agent vs Brokers License

An Orchestrator

As an orchestrator,  a real estate agent is required to coordinate the efforts of all parties involved in a transaction to a successful close. You will orchestrate the following:

  1. Attorneys
  2. Accountants
  3. Lenders
  4. Escrow Officers
  5. Contractors
  6. Other Agents
  7. Buyer and Seller

A Motivator

  1. Embrace the tension and stress through your dissatisfaction with the present
  2. Use the property features to sell the benefits of ownership when they are consistent with the clients objectives
  3. Utilize the urgency of time
  4. Bring people to a point of decision

A Problem Solver

  1. Be able to identify and isolate any problems from symptoms
  2. Creatively identify all options  for solving a problem
  3. Support Parties to select the best option for them
  4. Confirm the solution or options selected
  5. Get the solution implemented into the contract

A Negotiator

  1. ISOLATE areas of agreement from areas of disagreement
  2. REDUCE are of disagreement to smallest common denominator
  3. Probe for areas of compromise among parties
  4. Overcome Objections through inquiry
  5. Guide Parties to Agreement

A Detective

  1. Understand the personalities
  2. Understand the motivations
  3. Understand all of the options
  4. Understand the Quality or lack of Quality
  5. Lead with Kindness

When you understand and embrace each of the roles described, you are well on your way to a six figure income in an age old profession.


WRITER: Uncle Real Estate is a real estate broker in California. He has been a real estate investor in California since 1992.